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  • Name: Tok Aik Kai aka Yi Kai
  • Date i come to this world: 11 Sept 1987
  • Location: Singapore(Love it and proud of it!)
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  • Horoscope/Zodiac: Virgo/Rabbit
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    Tuesday, March 07, 2006

    Handwriting Analysis

    Always wanted to have my handwriting analysed to find out more about me. So while reading some blogs, i saw this Handwriting Wizard.

    The Analysis Starts Here...

    Aik Kai is very self-sufficient. He is trying not to need anyone. He is capable of making it on his own. He probably wants and enjoys people, but he doesn't "need" them. He can be a loner.

    True. I always prefer quiet moments to myself most of the time. Although i feel happy and comfortable with a group of friends, i am happy to be left alone too.

    Aik Kai is sarcastic. This is a defense mechanism designed to protect his ego when he feels hurt. He pokes people harder than he gets poked. These sarcastic remarks can be very funny. They can also be harsh, bitter, and caustic at the same time.

    True. I learned my lesson some time ago when my defense mechansim was totally destroyed. So now my sarcastic remarks are funny only. So if you hurt me, be careful. Amid all the laughter, i may be hurting you. But than again, it only happen when you offend me so much that my defense mechanism acts up.

    Aik Kai's true self-image is unreasonably low. Someone once told Aik Kai that he wasn't a great and beautiful person, and he believed them. Aik Kai also has a fear that he might fail if he takes large risks. Therefore he resists setting his goals too high, risking failure. He doesn't have the internal confidence that frees him to take risks and chance failure. Aik Kai is capable of accomplishing much more than he is presently achieving. All this relates to his self-esteem. Aik Kai's self-concept is artificially low. Aik Kai will stay in a bad situation much too long... why? Because he is afraid that if he makes a change, it might get worse. It is hard for Aik Kai to plan too far into the future. He kind of takes things on a day to day basis. He may tell you his dreams but he is living in today, with a fear of making a change. No matter how loud he speaks, look at his actions. This is perhaps the biggest single barrier to happiness people not believing in and loving themselves. Aik Kai is an example of someone living with a low self-image, because their innate self-confidence was broken.

    Two words: Very true.
    But as to what is being able to achieve things better than what i am achieving now, i don't really know... haha

    In reference to Aik Kai's mental abilities, he has a very investigating and creating mind. He investigates projects rapidly because he is curious about many things. He gets involved in many projects that seem good at the beginning, but he soon must slow down and look at all the angles. He probably gets too many things going at once. When Aik Kai slows down, then he becomes more creative than before. Since it takes time to be creative, he must slow down to do it. He then decides what projects he has time to finish. Thus he finishes at a slower pace than when he started the project. He has the best of two kinds of minds. One is the quick investigating mind. The other is the creative mind. His mind thinks quick and rapidly in the investigative mode. He can learn quicker, investigate more, and think faster. Aik Kai can then switch into his low gear. When he is in the slower mode, he can be creative, remember longer and stack facts in a logical manner. He is more logical this way and can climb mental mountains with a much better grip.

    Is it? I love my brain!

    Aik Kai will be candid and direct when expressing his opinion. He will tell them what he thinks if they ask for it, whether they like it or not. So, if they don't really want his opinion, don't ask for it!

    To girls out there, don't bring me along when shopping or else you might return with too many things or none at all. Basically i keep my opinions to myself but if you ask me...

    Aik Kai will demand respect and will expect others to treat him with honor and dignity. Aik Kai believes in his ideas and will expect other people to also respect them. He has a lot of pride.

    Yes! Yes! But about a lot of pride... still okay only lor...

    Aik Kai uses judgment to make decisions. He is ruled by his head, not his heart. He is a cool, collected person who is usually unexpressive emotionally. Some may see him as unemotional. He does have emotions but has no need to express them. He is withdrawn into himself and enjoys being alone. The circumstances when Aik Kai does express emotions include: extreme anger, extreme passion, and tremendous stress. If someone gets him mad enough to tell him off, he will not be sorry about it later. He puts a mark in his mind when someone angers him. He keeps track of these marks and when he hits that last mark he will let them know they have gone too far.

    Um, about being ruled by my head, quite true ba. But about being an unemotional person, super true! I don't really show out my emotions cause i think it is not necessary as actions is more important than words and emotions. About being alone, read above okay? About showing extrme feelings, should be true. About 记仇, nope! Cause after a while i will forget. I have lousy memory, both short-term and long-term.

    He is ruled somewhat by self-interest. All his conclusions are made without outside emotional influence. He is very level-headed and will remain calm in an emergency situation. In a situation where other people might get hysterical, he has poise. Aik Kai will work more efficiently if given space and time to be alone. He would rather not be surrounded by people constantly. In a relationship, he will show his love by the things he does rather than by the things he says. Saying "I love you" is not a needed routine because he feels his mate should already know. The only exception to this is if he has logically concluded that it is best for his mate to hear him express his love verbally. Aik Kai is not subject to emotional appeals. If someone is selling a product to him, they will need to present only the facts. They should present them from a standpoint of his sound judgment. He will not be taken in by an emotional story about someone else. He will meet emergencies without getting hysterical and he will always ask "Is this best for me?"

    About meeting emergencies in a calm way, really ar? No comments though... haha
    Oh ya, i love working alone. Don't know why but i feel pressurised when people are always around, giving me advices here and there. Maybe it is because it will mess up my train of thought. But this is not true when teamwork is required as the team is doing the thing together, not me alone.
    About love... being in a relationship once, i do agree i don't see the need to say "I love you" to my partner regularly. Words are cheap. Actions are the best proof of showing love and concern to my partner.
    When a salesman promote a product to me, i don't want to know extra details like how his brother have tried the product and love it etc. I only want to know its functions and facts. If the product is useless to me, i would politely reject the salesman.

    People that write their letters in an average height and average size are moderate in their ability to interact socially.� According to the data input, Aik Kai doesn't write too large or too small, indicating a balanced ability to be social and interact with others.

    Huh? But in my own explanation i am super shy. It takes me a while to warm up to strangers. Interacting with others is never my strong point so i tend to keep quiet most of the time. Being social depends on my mood. But really, this part i don't really understand. To my friends, they know me as one who sometimes is quiet and who sometimes is talkative and being lame and sprouting rubbish.

    Aik Kai can be defiant. He sometimes has the attitude that if someone doesn't like it the way he is doing it, then they can just "go to hell!" This trait may reveal itself in a rebellious nature that is always ready to resist forces which he thinks are infringing upon his freedom of action.

    SUPER true! When i feel a that i am being restricted, i tend to try to break free from it, no matter what. I love freedom and espcially space, hence my obession with sea, sky and forest. They seem so big and free and not restricted by anything. I may be stubborn at times but unless you can provide me with a better way of doing certain things, i will continue with my way. If you can't, f*** off.

    I won't say it is very accurate but rather close to 80% accurate. There are some points i totally agree with and there are some points which i am still figuring it out. But nevertheless, this analysis is rather accurate i would say.



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